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Pod Across America 13: New York, Part 1 of 3
We start a three-part look at New York and its music with a mix that sways from the sweetness of jazz and the timeless appeal of folk music to the edginess of city life. Sometimes all at once. (And isn’t all music really folk music? It comes from people, after all.) Here’s what you’ll hear today (right-click …
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Orgy of Tolerance
Spielart - das Theaterfestival JAN FABRE (B) Veranstaltungsdatum: 04.12.2009 bis: 05.12.2009 Uhrzeit20
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Hotlinks for 3/21 & 3/22
Train cars in New Castle, Indiana: Check out the videos that inspired our story on YouTube » Watch our story on CNN.com » The Redneck Mommy: Watch Eric's whole interview from the archives here. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll be captivated by Tanis: The Redneck Mommy. Halftime “Water Cell” escape scare: See the raw footage on YouTube: Houdini Water Torture […]

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Pope Delivers Christmas Blessing After Fall
Pope Delivers Christmas Blessing After Woman Knocks Him Down; Cardinal Fractures Hip

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Hotlinks for 3/7 & 3/8
Here are the links to everything on “News To Me” Saturday, March 3rd and Sunday, March 8th: Alaskan food and fuel crisis: Continuing coverage on CNN.com and alaskareports.com. Man hit by truck AND train: See the raw video on CNN.com 50 people, 1 question: To see the full version of the video we excerpted on “News To Me” check out iReporter […]

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STKS 052: THE SEXUAL STAGES IN RELATIONSHIP AND HOW COUPLES CAN INCREASE INTIMACY & PASSION with Tammy Nelson
THE SEXUAL STAGES IN RELATIONSHIP AND HOW COUPLES CAN INCREASE INTIMACY & PASSION, Tammy Nelson, Licensed Professional Counselor, Registered Art Therapist, Certified Imago Therapist, mother of two children, about to be married, Director of Passionate Partnerships, Author of "Getting the Sex You Want." In this episode, Tammy reveals the 6 sexual stages of relationship and how to work with them. Learn to create structure in your life that gets you sex. Develop a plan for spontaneity. Explore the Erotic Curiosity Spectrum. Learn what kind of fantasy 65% of women have. Deepen connection and create a safe space to talk about sex.
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STKS 020: Cosmic Sex: What Thousands of Women Say (and hundreds of men, too) with Gina Ogden, Ph.D. Author of “Women Who Love Sex” and “The Heart & Soul of Sex”
Francesca Gentille interviews Dr. Gina Ogden, marriage and family therapist, researcher, and facilitator of “Heart & Soul of Sex Workshops.” In this episode Dr Ogden shares mind blowing statistics from her ground breaking sex research. Learn what almost 4,000 women and men say about sexuality and spirituality. Delve into the multi-dimensional sexual brain. Celebrate the real meaning of the “Oh, God!” experience during sex. Discover how to move through limiting sexual beliefs and break through to your personal erotic edge.
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STKS 076: WITH MY BODY, I THEE WORSHIP with Francesca Gentille
WITH MY BODY, I THEE WORSHIP with Francesca Gentille, co-author of “The Marriage of Sex & Spirit”, clinical sexologist, relationship counselor, sacred sex coach, initiated shaman in 4 traditions, and guest host Linda Savage, PHD, licensed psychologist, AASECT Certified Sex Educator, Author of “Reclaiming Goddess Sexuality”In this episode, Francesca reveals intimate secrets on evoking the Sacred Lover and Sex Goddess in your self and your lover. Learn the how to use the Tools of The Mind that manifest your desires, and how to avoid the Traps of the Mind that blow up relationships. Discover the empowering cross cultural roots of Sacred Eros. Learn how to transform obessive longing into grace..
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In Major Economies, Many See Threat From Climate Change
With climate change on the agenda at the Group of Eight summit and the Major Economies Forum this week, Gallup Polls reveal that residents in many of these top-polluting nations who are familiar with global warming or climate change believe it poses a serious threat.
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Poll: Developed and Emerging Nations Should Cut Emissions
Residents in six key global economies are more likely to say developed economies such as the U.S., Germany, and Japan and fast-emerging economies such as China, India, and Brazil should reduce emissions at the same time than say one group should reduce emissions first.
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U.S. Abortion Attitudes Closely Divided
A mid-July USA Today/Gallup poll finds 47% of Americans calling themselves “pro-life” and 46% “pro-choice.” While the “pro-life” percentage has declined some compared to Gallup findings from May, both 2009 readings find more Americans labeling themselves “pro-life” than has been true in recent years.
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Arab Youth Perceive Many Barriers to Economic Opportunity
Gallup finds minorities of young people across many Arab League countries surveyed, except in the Gulf region, satisfied with job creation. Young Arabs perceive obstacles to entering the job market relating to lack of economic, selection system, and workforce readiness.
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How Can You Mend A Broken Heart - Al Green
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Sex And The City Movie Theme - The Pfeifer Broz. Orchestra
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The Heart Of The Matter - India.Arie
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New York Girls - Morningwood
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All Dressed In Love - Jennifer Hudson
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How Deep Is Your Love - The Bird & The Bee
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No Honduras deal yet on Zelaya return after coup
A tentative plan to end Honduras’ political crisis has not yet been agreed to by ousted President Manuel Zelaya and the country’s de facto leader but a negotiator for the leftist toppled in a coup said on Thursday a deal looked closer.
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Honduran coup leaders want Zelaya to make pledge
Honduras’ de facto government will only allow ousted President Manuel Zelaya to leave the country if he signs a letter dropping his demand to be reinstated, the leftist said on Thursday.
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Obama’s escalation challenges U.S. military
U.S. President Barack Obama’s escalation of the war in Afghanistan challenges his generals to do more with slightly less than they wanted — and much, much faster. The odds are against them.
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Colombia spars with Venezuela in growing crisis
Colombia on Wednesday warned Venezuela not to brush aside last month’s deaths of nine Colombians on the border as paramilitary gang violence, an incident that fueled tensions between the Andean neighbors.
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Colombia, U.S. sign military cooperation deal
Colombia and the United States signed a pact on Friday increasing U.S. access to Colombian military bases, the Colombian government said, deepening its standing as Washington’s main ally in the region.
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Gallery: Storms, tornado, lash Toronto-area communities
A worker walks down George St in Markdale, Ont. after a major storm passes through the community Aug. 20, 2009.
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Obama’s Inauguration day, in pictures
Gallery: In a day full of pomp and ceremony, Barack Obama became the 44th President of the United States
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Uruguayan President-elect Jose Mujica shows a gift received from the Uruguayan labor union federation PIT-CNT, during the closing ceremony of Latin America’s “Union Summit” meeting in Montevideo on December 7, 2009. The event was held in coincidence with the MERCOSUR Summit. AFP PHOTO/Pablo PORCIUNCULA (Photo credit should read PABLO PORCIUNCULA/AFP/Getty Images)

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IU Health & Wellness
IU Health & Wellness for March discusses studies about the vascular benefits of exercise for overweight but active men and about the controversial HPV vaccine. It also offers tips for preventing computer vision syndrome and for finding those elusive 30 minutes a day for exercise.
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The Kinsey Institute 2009 Juried Art Show opens May 29
The Kinsey Institute 2009 Juried Art Show, featuring paintings, prints, photographs, ceramics, wearable art, metalwork, fiber art and video installations, opens May 29 in the SoFA Gallery at Indiana University Bloomington. The artworks explore themes related to sex, gender, eroticism, reproduction, sexuality, romantic relationships and the human figure.
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All This Beauty - The Weepies
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We go from mature to immature as we age.

Our culture does a lot of damage to us all by instilling false and destructive ideals. This is an inescapable fact, and when combined with the reality that life doesn’t have a instruction book, the issue is compounded. This has a trickle down effect to our everyday dealings, such as relationships. Children are blessed with a wisdom & perspective that’s lost because we live in a world that kills love. Judgement, social structure, etc. all help to separate us from the simple truths and nature that children enjoy. Jesus once commented that we should have the faith of a child, a truly profound statement when you think about it. Sure, as we grow older, we gain knowledge, maturity, rationality, and all the other perks of age, but pay the price by gaining ignorance of losing the perspective we once had, the simple wisdom, and purity that we all once had, and suffer with issues that cause undue pain and run our lives because of it. We become conditioned to judge by every other standard except by observing and simply accepting the truth of how a person or situation is and going from there. Just look at all we go through in our lives, not just in relationships. We leave partners, dismiss potential ones, etc. all because of judgement, and most of the time, it’s over something petty. Children truly have an edge over adults in the area of perceiving & giving love, and its cause, acceptance & appreciation. We go from mature to immature in this arena as we age. 

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Can Your Personality Change?

By Colette  Bouchez

Part 1: Is Change Possible? | Part 2: Can You Increase Your Brain Power? | Part 3: Personality traits That Affect Health

Cast in stone. Dyed in the wool. A leopard can’t change his spots. All phrases that, at one time or another, have been used to express the idea that when it comes to personality, we are who we are and nothing can change.

And yet, it’s also not so usual to hear — or speak — phrases like: “This book changed my life,” “You’re not the same person you were when I married you,” or “I didn’t know any better when I was your age, but I’m different now.”

So, is it possible to change our personality — and if so, to what degree? The answer, it seems, has some surprising twists and turns.

“Classic textbooks describe personality as unique and relatively enduring internal and external aspects of a person’s character that influence behavior in certain situations — suggesting that yes, there are genetic traits that influence who we are, or at least lay down the basic blueprint for how we will act in any given situation in life,” says Long Island, N.Y., psychologist Abby Aronowitz, PhD. Aronowitz is director of SelfHelpDirectives.com.

Indeed, says Aronowitz, one only has to look at a neonatal nursery to realize that, right from birth, we are who we are.

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“If you look at a baby, they have had very little influence in their life. And yet some are easily startled, some are not; some can be easily satisfied, others seem inconsolable. There are character traits already starting to emerge right from day one,” Aronowitz tells WebMD.

Psychiatrist Charles Goodstein, MD, agrees: “If you observe newborns in a nursery, right from the get-go you can see differences in how they react, so you could say those traits represent the nuclei that develop into a personality,” he tells WebMD.

Nurture vs. Nature 

While this theory once comprised the entire concept of personality, more and more researchers are coming to see that while much of who we are is the result of genetic blueprint, not everything about us is written in indelible ink. Indeed, just how those personality traits unfold is largely the result of our life experiences, particularly during the early years of childhood.

“When we talk about personality today, we talk about the consequences of the interplay between those predispositions and genetic qualities unique to each of us, and our life experiences — the environmental factors and the relationships, especially with our parents, that play out over time and influence just how our personality evolves,” says Goodstein, a professor of psychiatry at NYU Medical Center in New York City.

Indeed, experts say that sometimes, even severe personality disorders can be tempered significantly when the environmental conditions are just right.

“A schizophrenic, for example, may never develop full-blown symptoms if they live a relatively stress-free life,” says Aronowitz.

So while change is clearly possible when our personality is molding, does it hold the same potential when we become an adult? Some believe it does.

In one study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, a group of Stanford University researchers found that certain aspects of our personality do change — gradually but consistently — as the circumstances in our lives change. What’s more, over time many of our less desirable traits seem to fade quite naturally, with more pleasing and social parts of our personality coming forward.

Making Change Possible

How does it happen? Aronowitz believes each personality type holds the potential for a wide range of behaviors. While our innate core traits may not be able to change, over time she says the behaviors that stem from those traits can and often are influenced by many other factors in our lives.

“There are many levels within each personality structure and the level at which your personality is performing at any given time can be sensitive to what is going on around you,” says Aronowitz.

Because of that, she says, it’s also possible to change our personality by willfully changing some of those circumstances believed to be affecting us.

“Situations very much influence what aspects of our personality come forward, so in this respect, sometimes changing jobs, social situations, even altering family dynamics can effect a change in our personality — mostly by allowing certain parts of our innate core that may have been hidden, to come forward and flourish,” says Aronowitz.

The classic example of this can be seen in the 1940s film Now Voyager. Here we watch the transformation of the shy, overly dependent, anxiety-ridden Bette Davis into a self-reliant, confidant social butterfly when she crawls out from under the crushing wing of a dominating mother.

For psychologist Scott Wetzler, PhD, the key to “trading up” on personality traits lies not so much in changing your circumstances as in learning to identify the parts of yourself that you don’t like — and then compensating for those character traits.

“By indulging in or avoiding certain behaviors you can keep certain innate personality reflexes from dominating your life. You can compensate for personality traits you don’t like so that other parts of yourself you do like can take center stage in your life,” says Wetzler, the chief psychologist at Montefiore Medical Center in Bronx, N.Y.

For example, says Wetzler, a shy person can learn the social skills necessary to do things their shyness would otherwise prevent. Likewise, a quick-tempered individual may learn anger management skills that make it easier to move ahead in his or her professional life.

While none of this will change your basic personality traits, says Wetzler, it can help keep certain of those traits from becoming dominant. So, in this sense, your personality does seem to change.

Goodstein agrees: “Despite the fact that we are born with a certain set of predispositions that lead us in specific directions, we also have the capacity for certain amounts of change throughout our lives.”

Making Change Happen

For some, a change in personality can occur abruptly, often the result of a tumultuous event in their lives. Indeed, how we cope with major upsets is part of our personality, and sometimes being forced to do so can lead to the discovery of a new and entirely different side of ourselves.

For most folks, however, change is a lot slower and more subtle — and the process is just a little bit different for everyone. However, the one thing that experts say we must all share before change can begin: the willingness to make it happen. As elementary as this sounds, Goodstein tells us that many folks who say they want change, really don’t!

“When you have been a certain way for most of your life, relinquishing certain aspects of your personality can be a very traumatic experience, and there is often great resistance to do that,” says Goodstein. This, he says, can sometimes be the case when others in our lives are prompting the change.

But if, in fact, you are ready for change, experts say the best place to start is with small adjustments in your thinking and your behavior.

Says Wetzler: “It’s a little bit like sailing a boat. You can’t expect to make radical changes in the steering, but over time, one or two degrees of change can put you on an entirely different course.”

While many folks find they can accomplish at least some of this on their own, if the seas get rough, or especially if you’re not quite sure just how to set sail, experts say don’t be afraid to look to professional help to take you through the process.

“Many of the determinants and manifestations of personality are of an unconscious nature, so you may not even know what it is about yourself that needs to be changed. You may know you are unhappy but you may not really know why,” says Goodstein.

While sometimes traditional psychoanalysis is necessary to produce a major change, experts say that often any form of therapy that helps focus attention on thoughts and behaviors can help.

Next week: As we continue to examine the concept of change, we turn our attention to intelligence. Can cracking the books and concentrating harder make you smarter — or just more tired? And are you bound by that third-grade IQ test — or can you actually get brighter as you age? The answers might surprise you!

Published June 6, 2005.

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SOURCES: Abby Aronowitz, PhD, director, SelfHelpDirectives.com, Long Island, N.Y. Charles Goodstein, MD, professor, NYU School of Medicine; former president of the Psychoanalytic Association of New York. Scott Wetzler, PhD, vice chairman, chief of psychology, Montefiore Medical Center, Bronx, New York. Journal of Personal and Social Psychology, May 2003.

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